Controlling Yourself When Offended - Elder Dave
Controlling Yourself When Offended - Elder Dave Why Offense Is Spiritually Dangerous End‑times offense Offense reveals where pride, anger, or bitterness have taken root. “Ask God to show you where pride, anger, or bitterness has taken over.” It signals spiritual vulnerability and emotional instability. Losing your internal compass Offense can drive you “into a ditch of your own making.” It shows the need for spiritual recalibration. Biblical Obedience When Hurt Obedience despite pain Doing right while still hurting is part of following Christ. “It means doing the right thing while you still feel hurt.” Obedience is measured by actions, not emotions. Pause and pray Lower your voice and choose words that honor Jesus. A short prayer can prevent escalation. Practicing Self‑Control Managing emotions Treat emotions like a tantrum—ignore and keep moving. Emotional discipline protects peace. Letting go of arguments Some people can “remain confidently wrong.” Winning is less valuable than...